Your life is about manifesting your dreams. You are worthy and deserving of the very best in life. You deserve to live your dream: your dream and no one else's, no matter how big your dream is.
Someone I knew a while back had a dream, and that was to own a small speedboat; one that takes four people comfortably. He didn't want anything too fancy, just one that he can enjoy 'power boating' once in a while. "My wife never supported me. She thinks it's way out of our financial capability," he dejectedly confided in me.
"When I flick though the speed boating magazines at the newsagents I go into my private world, dreaming the 'if only' dream. Then, unfortunately, I return to reality, the reality of 'Oh, well. I guess it's not meant to happen, because my wife will nag at me not to get one. How sad is that? But it's all right for her to have all the jewellery and shoes she wants."
In my opinion? That's very sad. If he passionately desires that speed boat he should manage his money carefully so as to get it, and still manage to keep his household in a comfortable state.
This is an example of living your dream. If you have a dream, never let anyone force you to change it. If it's your life-long dream, go for it. The journey to manifesting your dreams should be a joy, and when you achieve that goal, you should be in a position to fully and unconditionally enjoy it.
There are people around you who will try to talk you out of your dream. They'll accuse you of being crazy, outlandish, dreaming way beyond your means. Perhaps they'll say your dream is senseless, peculiar or even eccentric.
Fine, allow them to voice their opinion. It is their opinion and they are entitled to it. Other than that, do not give them the opportunity to sway you in any way.
The moment that you allow someone to influence you against what you want, you may lose motivation and confidence in yourself, as well as your desire to achieve that dream.
We all have dreams; some are big and some small. The idea is to have people around you who support and help you to achieve them, no matter what. Together you become stronger and more influential to strive for that goal.
Sharing a dream with positive and optimistic people is truly a powerful and inspiring motive that can be a huge force on the way to manifesting your dreams.
Hani Al-Qasem is a published author, speaker, and Learning And Development Academy Facilitator. He is also a Certified EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Practitioner, and motivation specialist.
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